TEN SIGNS YOUR MATE IS CHEATING
1. FINANCES: Sudden changes in habits with money, such as new bank accounts, unusual spending, not letting you see the bills, secret credit cards, etc.
2. WORK: Changes in work, including working late when they normally don’t or wouldn’t, sudden “short business trips” (especially short over-night trips.)
3. ATTITUDE: Changes in attitude towards you, such as anger, remorse, defensiveness, etc. For example, being very defensive about being questioned.
4. PHONE: Buying a new cell phone, changing current cell phone codes, throwing away the bills, or not allowing you to use their phone.
5. APPEARANCES: Increase in caring about their appearance, such as loosing weight, working out, wearing new cologne, or changing hairstyles.
6. COMPUTER: Blocks your access to passwords, seems to be on the Internet more than usual, deleting the “history”, and general unusual computer behavior or activity.
7. CLEANING: Suddenly cleaning the car, cleaning out pockets of clothes, washing own clothes, emptying the trash (such as at a car wash), and, in general, “cleaning” when not necessary (or typical) for that person.
8. SEX: Unusual changes in sexual behavior or activity. Typically, the cheater will avoid sex with their partner if they are having an affair, but studies have shown that cheaters (and pornography) can also INCREASE the level of sexual activity between partners.
9. LACK OF INTEREST: Either lack of interest in you, the family, work, the house, or anything that the person normally has or had shown a great deal of interest in. It may not be exclusive to you, but also “their life” in general, such as church, family gatherings, working on house projects, their career, etc.
10. LIES: In general, a cheater must begin to create lies to cover their tracks. These lies may be about anything, and seem trivial (at first.) Lies build upon lies. They become more and more difficult to remember (story from story, facts from fiction, etc.)
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